Apparently if your too good you just need to be removed - at least in New York. But it's a "Girls Sport" right? How much trouble do you think they'd be in, if it were a girl attempting to play a "Boys Sport".
So if I understand this correctly:
It's OK for a girl (or woman) to excel at a sport dominated by boys (men). But not the other way around.
It's OK to be good if it's an individual sport but not if it's a team sport.
It's never OK to be too good until your 18 or over because it's bad for others self esteem.
So, if he sucked, it would be OK?